My idea about having a threesome

I have this special lover who is a stripper. She is into BDSM, just like I do. She can play it all night. I love her with all my heart. She is polyamorous and okay with my other lovers. I am very satisfied with that. She never gets jealous of me and my other lovers and she is willing to explore more sexual possibilities in our life. As much as I know she would be okay with ma having a threesome dating with someone or other swinger couples, but I would more like to have my first threesome with her. I think it would be great to have a threesome with someone suited I never thought about having a tinder threesome behind her back. I think it is not worth it. I even turned on an invitation from a super-hot swinger couple, because I really want her in my first threesome experience. I know she would be a perfect swinger and it will be a perfect threesome.

One day, she told me that she would like to see me with another lady and it would turn her on so much. She met her on a threesome app. I smiled and asked “are you sure about that?” She said yes. I was very happy, because I don’t even need to bring up the idea and force her into it. I know it will happen one day sooner or later. Maybe yesterday or maybe several months later. I would do nothing to push it. I want her to be sure she really like that to happen and is she does, it will be much better and more than perfect.

This is also what I want to share about threesome with all swinger couples and singles. Never push your threesome, no matter how had you want it. The best part of having a threesome is the eager and hunger of everybody feel towards threesome. I might be a perfectionist, but I would rather go without than have something shoddy. It is totally worth it.

Do not push, I don’t mean you should never bring it up to your partner until your partner want it. I mean you can expose this idea to him/her and get him/ger to know something about it. For example, if you want to have a threesome, you can tell your partner that. You can say “how do you feel about having a threesome?” But do not say that “Let’s have a threesome someday!” Do not push your partner into the whole idea. You can help it to grow by getting threesome enough exposure to your partner. Watch some threesome movies and tell her some threesome stories you heard from other people, or share your threesome fantasies with him/her. Just don’t set a deadline. After you did your part, you should wait for your partner to bring it up to you. When that day comes, you will be sure that he/she really wants it. That is the perfect timing.